Although this field can be depressing and many people may say that if you get emotional then you really shouldn't do this type of work, it is also very fulfilling work. You could never do this job if you didn't get emotional. I have sometimes had a difficult time when my clients have passed on but at the same time, I am thankful they had their last few memorable days with me. I had a client whose last name will stay a secret, but Hank was one of those individuals who gave me a reason to get up in the morning and see life the way I wanted to. To live it and not just exist in it. On May 4, 2008, at 3:10 pm
(I will never forget) Hank wasn't feeling good. so I asked what would make him smile? He then got a little sarcastic and said "A big fat t-bone steak" so of course I asked the family member if it was ok. My husband and I cooked up a steak and taters, cut it into a million cubes, and brought it to him. He was so happy, I received a phone call saying he had passed away at 9:55 pm. I was crying so hard but not because of being sad, but knowing I made him smile.
The next day I saw the family and friends of Hank and everyone new me as "T-bone". I still see his family. I love what I do.
